During the week between Christmas and New Year’s, I went about reviewing my year to see how I did, and setting up new and/or adjusted goals for the one to come.
I grabbed my cup of joe and started. I crank-started with the rote S.M.A.R.T. guidelines.
Blah, blah, blah. Things that I should DO. Start this. Finish that. Numbers and figures. Ughhh. Yawn. 3 cups of coffee down.
I felt like I was somehow missing the mark. So, I began to ask myself – what is the damn mark? And how should I be looking at going into the New Year?
I needed a little kick-start in the inspiration department, so I began to read other people’s thoughts on how they were going to set goals for the New Year. I tuned in to the words of people who I respect the most; leaders of industry to leaders of thought. Most of them weren’t talking about their “to do” lists. Most of them were looking at it from the question “HOW DO I WANT TO FEEL?” or “HOW DO I WANT TO BE?”
Light bulb on. I’m a human BE-ing not a human DO-ing.
Okay. Re-adjustment needed on approach. So, I snagged one from a respected thought leader. I decided to choose a word to ruminate on for the next six months. A word that, for whatever reason, really resonates with me… a touchstone within.
Wow. There were so many words I could choose from. Mighty words like creativity, freedom, mastery, adventure… All good… but the word I chose for me gurgled up like North Dakota oil. ALLOW.
Everything I want to feel to take over. For me it’s a pervasion of peace, serenity , connection, love, creativity.
The undesirable stuff I hold onto to be released.
Room for new ideas, inspiration, ways of doing.
Time to breathe.
Prayer, meditation and gratitude.
I’m liking this ruminating on a word thing. Feels better already. Thanks, thought leaders.
Because we’re human BE-ings not human DO-ings.
So my lovely readers, what’s YOUR word for the next year?
Please share in “DISQUS” section below.